Do opposites attract?! OR,the Like attracts Like?! #InRelationships ?!
Well i don’t really follow and have never understood the science of relationship or the laws of attractions.Honestly,both the laws & the science creeps me out. Why these are there at first place!! Pheww !!
Who does fall in love by applying so much quantum of knowledges ?! And even if they do, does it ever warrant a real-ever-growing Love for them ?!
I mean We don’t planchet or equate and then assemble the likeliness of staring at same LODESTONE!! Do we??
Love is all about feelings, emotional-physical bonding and shared mutual respect.When in love,it’s all about nourishing that bonding and evolving with it,no matter what!!
It’s a cliche to put but i follow my heart and what it makes me feel in combination with how does certain feelings stoke my brain.Call it rational, i call it putting sheer efforts to make my feelings more certain and prominent.This is how i have understood and grown up with love and emotional acquaintances till date,say for more than two decades now!!
I would say i am technical and analytical by head(academically too.. haha!!) ,but damn!! This technical & analytical theme of myself vanishes every freaking time this core of my heart signals my brain,Dude.. ‘this is it..,you’re in for a swing, you’re in freaking love with this beautiful soul in freaking pieces,to the moon and back ,to the distant another galaxy and to the core of my heart and what not..!! Well this over emphasis is to say.., I am totally in for whatever and wherever i would need to time-jump in order to hold onto the love of my life in this life (or beyond, IDK 😀 ).
But wait.., it does not last! why?!?! cuz of some anomaly?!some non matching laws of attractions or some relationship science going south?!?!
I wonder for the conundrums already knowing the answers for it.
I am a sucker at understanding how Love for some people(and may be most),at a point so dear and bigger than everything else, reduces to absolute nothing?!?!
Is this the magic of Un-Loving?!
I mean is that this easy? To walk away?! Is it?!
We don’t find the One, We nurture it to the point, where we become The One to each other.
But then, if i can love, i can learn to let go too. Isn’t it’s the only way it has to be?! Well.., Never had other choices i guess!
The thing is, we all when in love with the significant other, as we perceive initially; forget to nourish it later at some point of time as we experience life’s thick and thins or anything to everything like that. We expect it to be always in one shade. One shade exalted!!
One shade south, we feel its not working or it’s not worth it!! (Really?!?)
When in hard times, we refuse to work-it in the same direction, for the same cause with the same momentum.We slow down and stop without even realizing it! We do not realize with all our behavioral slacks and life’s umpteen crises.., it is just ‘Us’, and it will be always the ‘Us” , more or less, who can keep driving this exciting “love-wagon” back to the Home..!
One can walk away. One can pause and switch to another love story(ies).., But there won’t be an escape from making it a “WE” to the Home-sweet-Home!
Is there?! Do tell me if you know of some escape route.
So what’s my idea of love?! HAHAHA ….!!
I would rather wish to fall in love with one and skip-a-beat for HER, love her all my life than try defining it!! 😇
But in my senses,Love is certainly a beauty for two beautiful souls working in tandem with all they can harness,create and simultaneously work-it-out to fill the vacuum left by the other one unknowingly or so.
Love is definitely not about seeking constant euphoria but is the courage and will to create most of it together! May be it is the conscience of absolute balancing and nurturing of two souls and it’s spirits! Without ever giving up. 🙂
Am i in love?! 🙂
I want to be. 🙂 I want to be loved by one. A love that runs parallel to time, is eternal and evolving through all the phases of life. I want to celebrate her. I want to celebrate Us and every emotion in between..! And I will.., ‘We’ will. 🙂
I want to be a king — To find Love is the dream of Kings 🙂
Love,Live,Grow.. #together 😉 🙂
Image: Somewhere from Google (long ago)